Theron David Rose, December 31, 2021
Prioritize and Organize Your Life!!
Theron David Rose, December 29, 2021
At the beginning of this NEW YEAR, 2022, here are a few thoughts you may find interesting–perhaps even useful–if you are goal oriented. Consider the following:
Ultimately, everything we do in our daily lives and with our time, is either pleasing to the Lord or it is not. There isn’t really a lot of middle ground. Ether we are on the strait and narrow, or we are not. It all becomes a matter of focus and obedience. There are absolutes. There are celestial laws. There are eternal things we must know and must believe and must do in order to become. It will take our consistent effort over this life-time and the next. We cannot allow discouragement or the feeling of being overwhelmed to overtake us. We can do it. The Lord knows we can, and so do we, if we listen to and follow the Holy Spirit. Key Question: What are we focusing our thoughts, our minds on? That is important because our hearts will surely follow.
Years ago, Elder Paul H. Dunn shared a “target” for CES educators to aim all classroom instruction toward. The target consisted of three circles. The most desirable “bull’s eye” in the center that every teacher was to aim for was entitled, MUST KNOW, “doctrines essential for salvation”. The next of the three circles surrounding the bulls eye was entitled SHOULD KNOW. This included doctrinal teachings not essential to salvation, and events, people, etc. The final, outermost circle, was the NICE TO KNOW, informational things of the gospel including minor people, events, dates, geographical information, and trivia. I do not know that Elder Dunn invented this “Must Know”; “Should Know”; “Nice-to-Know” target- chart, or if he was simply the first to graphically display this idea [of a target forming a visual of a concentric circular hierarchy of values]. However, this idea has been adapted and used to help teachers teach, and learners understand and remember, by many of us over the years.
Sister Julie B. Beck LDS Relief Society General President, used a similar hierarchy of values to great advantage to help those she taught to grasp and remember the importance of prioritizing and creating balance in personal daily living. I have made changes and added to her lists, but otherwise remained true to Sister Beck’s basic premise. (Relief Society Auxiliary Training, February, 2011.)
Sister Beck used the following three categories:
- Things that are absolutely essential to achieve eternal life,
- Things that are necessary, and,
- Things that are “nice” to do, and “nice” to know.
- Consider the following scripture chain:
2 Nephi 9:51: So much of the time we spend our efforts on things that are of no worth and cannot satisfy.
D&C 117:8 “…you covet the drop and neglect more weighty matters….”
Matt. 23:23 “…you have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith….”
- Essential things to do: We know that there are some essential things that must be taken care of if we are to achieve eternal life. We should begin every day focused on doing one or more of those essential things. It is not a long list. However, it includes the things we must do or become in order to qualify for eternal life. By doing these things we become more Christ-like. By doing these things we are showing the Lord that we’re aligned with him.
- Read scriptures (key words: immerse, ponder, personalize, meditate).
- Fast and pray
- Invite, receive, and follow the Spirit
- Make and keep celestial covenants
- Seek to serve–to help someone
2. Necessary things to do: The list of necessary things is long. These are the things that help keep life moving.
- Date with spouse
- Daily/weekly To Do Lists: errands, shopping, meals,
- Eat right
- Daily exercise
- Becoming self-reliant financially, food storage, emotional stability, etc.
- Work/profession
3. Nice to do: The nice things won’t save us. But, they add fun and variety to an otherwise dull and boring life-style. If we do not control this area, however, we will spend all our waking hours doing these fun and entertaining things. This list should be kept under control. Some examples of “nice to do things” include:
- Inordinate amount of time spent on Twitter, Facebook and other social media
- Nonessential texting, internet searches,
- All forms of recreational activities
- Hobbies
- Sports
- Eating out
- TV, movies, DVD’s, etc.
- Unnecessary vacations, sight-seeing trips, etc.
I present these thoughts to make you think and to give you ideas as to how you might want to organize your “new life” for this coming NEW YEAR! Good Luck!